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advice to parents

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This video I found on youtube though stuck out to me and how it can help others to reassure your child's happiness. I'm doing a paper right now on how divorce/separation impacts the kids not only in a negative way but also as a positive. Yes, study's show that especially in our generation we are not getting married as much, but the birth rates are going up. This means that there are many children out there with parents who are separated, and or could be together without that label of being in a relationship. This makes it easier for the parents to split up without having any consequences. Going to BMHS and or almost any high school, you can walk down a hallway and half the kids you ask if their parents are together. Most likely their parents aren't together, and their parents are in and out of their life. Whether or not you are older or younger parents if you know that you can help prevent a negative impact on you child through the divorce and even as they grow up, t...

love

Love can be the best thing but worst thing one can go through. While some are so love stuck on whats going on in their relationships, others are getting their hearts broken or just having fun till they find the right one. In our day in age, there are 13 year olds believing its okay to get on birth control, not to just "regulate" their period, but for having intercourse. This isn't okay and this isn't what 13 year old girls should be thinking about. Thanks to social media this have kids convinced they need to be in relationships and act as if they are a grown person. Is this truly okay? in my eyes no. my younger sister is 14 and a freshman in high school and her norm is nothing to okay to me. I ask her why she thinks theses things about relationships and she says because of social media and videos. how old should kids be to fist go on social media? In my Opinion, they should be allowed social media as a freshman in high school that is it.

Think about it

Where does one find their happiness? Is it with in themselves or through activities that they participate in? Maybe, its the mind games they play with themselves or others when they are bored. Its amazing to think and see a human being having the potential of being so joyful and so outgoing. In their eyes though, Do they truly feel this or is it all a show? Thinking about ways to make yourself happy... Yet only thinking of a few. Here and there. You might hear a few. But here and there, You might hear none. As a kid you have a ton, but as you grow you have none. Its sad to think.... People go to being so happy To no joy at all. Is it life getting to them and all the bad moments, Or is it them just giving up. Everyone in life wants to be happy, But in order to be happy you have to accept yourself.... which this can be hard...  an I you accept yourself? Are you going to push and fight through all the pain and struggle? Or.... Are you going to lay down ........

life or death

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Have you ever wondered what you would do in a life or death situation? or what would cause you to lean towards one of them? This is going to sound cheesy but I'm watching a TV series on Netflix calls Vampire diary's.Its to much to explain, but in this last episode it really made me start thinking...... how would I be put in the predicament. Now with me fighting depression I am always thinking about ways I could die. I think about this so often that its not even a struggle anymore it is just a thought that keeps building. As many say they would choose to die for their family but others say opposite, until the time comes though I believe most will say no. For me though if it came to saving my siblings or myself I would always choose my siblings. This is exactly what the two brothers do in this TV show. Only some though will be able to put themselves inside the characters shoes to actually be able to feel the compassion, and the love between the two brothers. Nothing can sto...