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life styles

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What truly is your life style? Is it staying healthy Having fun? Working out? Being lazy? There's many different things that ones style could be The real question is though, Is your style good for you? Do you need to fix it? Do you need to become more spiritual? Maybe mine is not caring about others so much. Caring to much can either help you Or hurt you if you care to much Mine happens to hurt me If one cares to much about others they put themselves last instead of first I do this with family, friends, even coworkers or people who are unfortunate But once one hurts me or disrespects me I crash I let it hurt me and influence my emotions Most of the time for that day. If not for weeks We all have a style We can either keep it or change it

loans

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Student loans are the death of me. I believe that schooling or at least staying on campus shouldn't be as much as it is. the prices are outrageous and should be less. I know this sounds bad but at the same time we are pushed to go to a good college and to graduate but if we are not athletes than we are screwed with years of debt. Even being a second year in college I still owe so much money it is crazy and I dont know if I will be able to continue.it is stress, work, and more stress all because of loans.
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This video is talking about divorced parents and how even though it sucks in the moment for the kids to have their parents not together over time they will see the benefit of not having both parents together. I believe this opens up our minds to not looking apron divorce in  a negative way but in a positive way. But yet they encourage people not to just get up and leave but to actually think about it before making actions.

advice to parents

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This video I found on youtube though stuck out to me and how it can help others to reassure your child's happiness. I'm doing a paper right now on how divorce/separation impacts the kids not only in a negative way but also as a positive. Yes, study's show that especially in our generation we are not getting married as much, but the birth rates are going up. This means that there are many children out there with parents who are separated, and or could be together without that label of being in a relationship. This makes it easier for the parents to split up without having any consequences. Going to BMHS and or almost any high school, you can walk down a hallway and half the kids you ask if their parents are together. Most likely their parents aren't together, and their parents are in and out of their life. Whether or not you are older or younger parents if you know that you can help prevent a negative impact on you child through the divorce and even as they grow up, t...

love

Love can be the best thing but worst thing one can go through. While some are so love stuck on whats going on in their relationships, others are getting their hearts broken or just having fun till they find the right one. In our day in age, there are 13 year olds believing its okay to get on birth control, not to just "regulate" their period, but for having intercourse. This isn't okay and this isn't what 13 year old girls should be thinking about. Thanks to social media this have kids convinced they need to be in relationships and act as if they are a grown person. Is this truly okay? in my eyes no. my younger sister is 14 and a freshman in high school and her norm is nothing to okay to me. I ask her why she thinks theses things about relationships and she says because of social media and videos. how old should kids be to fist go on social media? In my Opinion, they should be allowed social media as a freshman in high school that is it.

Think about it

Where does one find their happiness? Is it with in themselves or through activities that they participate in? Maybe, its the mind games they play with themselves or others when they are bored. Its amazing to think and see a human being having the potential of being so joyful and so outgoing. In their eyes though, Do they truly feel this or is it all a show? Thinking about ways to make yourself happy... Yet only thinking of a few. Here and there. You might hear a few. But here and there, You might hear none. As a kid you have a ton, but as you grow you have none. Its sad to think.... People go to being so happy To no joy at all. Is it life getting to them and all the bad moments, Or is it them just giving up. Everyone in life wants to be happy, But in order to be happy you have to accept yourself.... which this can be hard...  an I you accept yourself? Are you going to push and fight through all the pain and struggle? Or.... Are you going to lay down ........